September 2011
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Bisexual and transgender
fuckyeahbidolphin:
Sumbitted by: http://bidyke.tumblr.com
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Damask and Plaid: A thought about gender-binary... →
lemuffinmistress:
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bidyke:
If “bisexual” is indeed binary and forbidden to use, then people need to also stop using some other words, like “transgender”, “androgynous”, “cross dresser”, and “transexual”.
Just saying.
“Trans” means “across” (as in, “to cross to…
I’m just going to jump in and say that it’s very nice of all of you to define what...
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“I have a few confessions to make today:
I’m a bikesexual (I have sexual...”
– My girlfriend, on facebook
Anonymous asked: Hey, I hope you don't mind me asking, but I'm curious...why do you personally choose to label yourself as bisexual rather than pansexual?
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A thought about bisexual "myth busting"
Following this, this and some other conversations.
Reinforcing the notion that we’re “actually normal” isn’t fighting biphobia, but rather something more like a form of bi assimilationism. It does more to harm than benefit us, making bisexuals capitulate to social norms and throwing overboard everyone who doesn’t meet the standard.
What of the many, many people who don’t fit in the standard...
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"One partner of each gender"
fuckyeahbidolphin:
Sumbitted by: http://bidyke.tumblr.com
caravaggia asked: I think I love you ! Well, enough to follow you... not in a creepy stalking way of course !
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O my heart →
yeahitsokay:
Sarcastic answer: Pan = all, therefore pansexuals are attracted to literally everything
Informed answer: The word “bisexual” had meanings prior to its current use referring to a particular sexual identity. To pin the false conclusions one draws based out of an ignorance of the origins of the word on bisexuals themselves is pretty fucking offensive.
If you’re going to be...
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“I’ve always understood the word ‘slut’ to mean a woman who freely enjoys her own...”
– Alice Walker (via subconciousevolution)
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Snippet #4: The bisexual invisibility report... →
aliceranaway:
bidyke:
Okay, so I know I haven’t posted anything of my own in a while, so I thought that instead of a short little snippet, I’d post something more substantial. This is still from my book, taken from the chapter about biphobia and monosexism. It’s my review of the Bisexual Invisibility report and why it’s so fucking important. I was going to do a blog post about this for a...
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“I don’t really think that a welcome is enough, to be frank.
Feminism has a...”
– rachel mccarthy james (via tahlalalia, sluthaditcoming) (via caffeinatedbunny) (via ceasesilence) (via absquesetentia)
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Snippet #4: The bisexual invisibility report... →
Okay, so I know I haven’t posted anything of my own in a while, so I thought that instead of a short little snippet, I’d post something more substantial. This is still from my book, taken from the chapter about biphobia and monosexism. It’s my review of the Bisexual Invisibility report and why it’s so fucking important. I was going to do a blog post about this for a very long time anyway, so...
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“For many years, Funders for LGBTQ Issues has tracked data on grants made by U.S....”
– The Bisexual Invisibility Report
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subconciousevolution:
“After decades and decades and decades of feminists burning their bras, saying, ‘Make more money than men, do this, run over men, have sex like a man, tell your man what to do, don’t let them open the door –’ you’re not happy with the product, are ya ladies? A lot of them are older, they’re not married, and they’re not getting you-know-what.”
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Fox News’ Andrea Tantaros,...
Have any of you stopped shaving your pits?
bodyinrebellion:
After a few years of shaving semi-regularly, I really want to stop shaving my pits but can’t find any info about the whole thing! Even when I type “How to stop shaving your pits” into google, the first 5 pages are filled with tips on how to shave your pits!? (can I get a FUCKED UP BODY POLICING!)
And so I’d absolutely love and adore your halp, people!
How long does it take...
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“I’m beautiful because my belly is round and delightful and i will shake it in...”
– THAT’S SO MAJESTIC
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Brain Picka!: Imagine an X-Men storyline about... →
sclez:
And the bloggers would debate about ‘human privilege’ and how some mutants have ‘passing’ privilege because they look human, whereas Morlocks are super-mega-triple-word-score oppressed because they can’t hide their mutations and feel shunned even from mainstream mutant communities.
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LOL. I love this.
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A thought about gender-binary words
If “bisexual” is indeed binary and forbidden to use, then people need to also stop using some other words, like “transgender”, “androgynous”, “cross dresser”, and “transexual”.
Just saying.
“Trans” means “across” (as in, “to cross to the other side”) “Cross-dresser” means wearing the...
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VegⒶnarchism: Day By Day: It is really... →
veganarchismdaybyday:
Guilting people into living a lifestyle is never right. Being vegan is a personal choice, and it is a lifestyle that does not work for everyone. Only YOU can make the choice.
When I decided to start this blog, I vowed never to guilt others or engage in:
✯ ablist ✯ sexist ✯…
Yay ^_^
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"This is not an invitation to rape me" campaign
moderngirlblitz:
sun-sol-ra:
We need to learn
thank-you.
SRSLY
Also, on second thought: hmm, so only white women deserve not to get raped :D
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Oh Passing. OH PASSING. :(
foolishfiish:
I get so upset whenever anyone brings up passing.
Please. Please please please. I beg everyone to understand this. I’m seriously begging people.
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Help! (Fellow bisexuals)
Does anyone know any text (whether online or print) in which a bisexual person describes being sexually harassed by gays or lesbians on grounds of being bisexual?
Examples (which I’ve heard but are not written): a lesbian rejecting a bi woman as potential partner ‘because she’s had cock in her’, gay men telling a bi male not to come to gay parties because ‘he stinks...
