To all my new followers
Hello ^_^ Yay, nice to see you here.
I wanted to bring to your attention the Bi Tumblr group on facebook, which is a space for us to get together, network, discuss things, etc. You’re more than invited :)
Love, rage and pride
Hello ^_^ Yay, nice to see you here.
I wanted to bring to your attention the Bi Tumblr group on facebook, which is a space for us to get together, network, discuss things, etc. You’re more than invited :)
https://www.facebook.com/groups/546914782005931
I opened this group so we could have a space on facebook for the Bi Tumblr bloggers. To talk, vent, socialize, support and get to know each other :)
Please join, add others you know, and reblog! ^_^
Reblogged from the-rainbow-flame
It’s been said before, and it will need to be said a million times again, but PLEASE stop comparing heterosexism and cissexism to racism. They are not the same. They are not interchangeable. Gay is NOT the “new black”. Trans rights are not the “civil rights of our time”. Can we please acknowledge the QPOC who have to deal with who deal with both? Take it from them. We need to work on racism AND hetero/cissexism.
Likewise for monosexism. Bi people all-too-often use the comparison between bi people and people of mixed race. That fails.
[Image: A pixelated cat with the body of a Pop-Tart, flying through space, and leaving a bi colored trail behind it (pink, purple and blue)]
Bi nyan cat :D (by me).
Reblogged from SheWired (click through above for the original)
When asked by a friend who I would I write my column for today , I turned to him with my usual grimace of uncertainty and said, “Perhaps, it will be on one of my activist, queer, literary ‘sistah- heroines’ June Jordan who died in June 2002.” When he paused for a moment and then turned to me with a grimace of indignation asking “ Who was she?” I, at that moment, chose my topic.
Who was June Jordan?
She inspired me to write.
June Jordan, an awarding-winning poet, former columnist for The Progressive, author of 28 books of poems, political essays, children’s fiction, was a “boundary crosser” who died at the age of 65 after a decade-long battle with breast cancer.
Jordan was a boundary crosser whose life’s work was her writings. Both the Norton Anthology of African American Literature and The African American Review depicted Jordan as one of the most prolific contemporary African American writers in many genres.
Author and Nobel laureate Toni Morrison told the Associated Press that Jordan’s writing life would best be depicted as “Forty years of tireless activism coupled with and fueled by flawless art.” And In describing the scope of Jordan’s writings, Adrienne Rich, renowned lesbian feminist poet, essayist and MacArthur awardee wrote in Sojourner a feminist magazine that “[Jordan’s] flexible, swift mind was equaled by her dazzling language, her access to both the most elegant diction and the most frontal kinds of rhetoric, so that a reader is always being surprised by a riff of music here, a trenchant political insight there. Her poems describe a complex arc back and forth between manifestos and tender love lyrics, jazz poetry and sonnets, with mood-shifts and image-juxtapositions to match.”
After her eight-year marriage ended in divorce, Jordan transgressed a sexual boundary that has been scoffed at by both heterosexual and queers people — she came out as a bisexual woman in the 1970’s, an era of lesbian and gay politics that viewed bisexuals as “fence sitters” who did not want to give up their heterosexual privilege, and they were viewed as a weak link in the struggle for sexual equality.
Within lesbian circles, the place of bisexual women within the queer women’s community was often marginal, if not non-existing, and their commitment to feminism was always suspect. Many lesbians believed that any women who had the ability to sexually love another woman had a political obligation to identify as lesbian. Others believed that the compulsory nature of heterosexuality in our culture precluded all possibilities of women freely choosing a heterosexual relationship.
Jordan, however, felt differently on the topic of bisexuality and spoke about it. In Jordan’s keynote address, “ A New Politics of Sexuality,” to the Bisexual, Gay, and Lesbian Student Association at Stanford University on April 29, 1991 she said, “ I believe the Politics of Sexuality is the most ancient and probably the most profound arena of human conflict…deeper and more pervasive than any other oppression …is the oppression of sexuality…Finally, I need to speak on bisexuality. I do believe that the analogy is interracial or multicultural identity. I do believe that the analogy for bisexuality is a multicultural, multi-ethnic, multiracial worldview. Bisexuality follows from such a perspective and leads to it , as well.”
Jordan derived her bisexual and biracial perspectives from having transgressed two more societal boundaries —an interracial marriage with a white man, and having given birth to a biracial child, both scoffed at during her time by blacks and whites in this country. But it is Jordan’s “boundary crossings” that gave her the intellectual breath on an issue, and by extension she gave us a new way to see ourselves and the world.
Adrienne Rich stated that Jordan’s essay “ On Bisexuality and Cultural Pluralism” “is a kind of credo of the inclusivity she strove for.”
Bisexuals are individuals who are blessed with the possibility to love that transcends the artificial socially constructed boundary of gender identity as well as the biologically constructed boundary of sex.
Given a specific spiritual inheritance, bisexuality in indigenous traditions have long been identified as a role of the highest spiritual order for a person. Called gatekeepers by the Dagara of West Africa and Two Spirit by many Native Americans, bisexuals are born into a very special destiny.
I think June Jordan came here with a special destiny and with a higher calling than many of us. I see the world much fuller because of her, and I give thanks for the many boundaries she dared to cross.
[Image: a bisexual flag overlaid with the text: “I AM BISEXUAL. I’m allowed to be confused. I’m allowed to be going through a phase. I’m allowed to be greedy. I’m allowed to want attention. I’m allowed to have sex with as many people as I want, or not at all. Your society builds closets all around me, alienating me, silencing me, trying to push me back into your comfort zone. Do I make you uncomfortable? MY BISEXUALITY WILL NOT BE TONED DOWN. It will slip through the edges, under the cracks, against the current, under the radar, and when you least expect it, it will burst out and shatter your monosexist world.”]
New meme by me :)
[Image: a line drawing of white bunnies on a pink, purple and blue background, holding up a bisexual flag, an anarchist circle A sign, and a “general strike” sign. All are also holding up a banner, reading: “We don’t want a bigger piece of the pie - we want the whole fucking bakery”]
Anarchist bi bunnies :D
Really important discussion going on right now about bisexual POC!
It starts out with this video, and continues with this really important response.
Here are my thoughts about it:
First of all, I am totally excited to find that there’s a bisexual POC dialogue going on. This is the first time I’ve seen anything like that coming from the direction of communities of color, rather than from the direction of mostly-white bisexual communities. I don’t know if this is a new thing, or if I’m just new to it, but it’s really exciting to find out!
Second, I do appreciate the video for raising the topic of bi studs (SRSLY!), but I also have to echo Nikki’s comments about it. The “bros before hos” bothered me too (for the same reasons), as well as the “I’m not going to judge you for it” type of response.
In addition to what Nikki said about it being decontextualizing, I also thought that their comments were very *American* in particular, the kind of dialogue praising individuality, personal choices, an “inner core” of truth (“be who you are”), etc. Now, I don’t know if these things carry different meanings for POC in the US, but for me they just echoed the wrong way. In my communities (bisexuals, and Mizrahi* feminists), we really try to emphasize the importance of community, social environments, the way we’re influenced by each other, personal solidarity and support, etc. All this talk about individuality strikes me as incredibly isolating and politically misguided.
Anyway, I still think that this is a really important discussion going on, and still very excited that it’s happening!
Would love to hear more thoughts! Tumblr, speak up!
* Mizrahi = Arabic Jew